Find your Shidduch among Jewish singles looking for a serious, lasting relationship.
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Here are clear answers to the questions people ask most often about ShidduchMatch. If your question is not here, write to us at info@shidduchmatch.org. You can also read our safety guide or go straight to free sign-up.
ShidduchMatch is a Jewish matchmaking site for singles who are seriously looking for marriage. It launched in 2026, is run from Israel and is available in English, French, Hebrew and Russian. It combines a compatibility score, built from your profile, your religious practice and a personality test, with an optional personal matchmaker service.
Any Jewish single aged 18 or over who is sincere about finding a partner. Every level of observance is welcome, from secular to haredi. You simply choose what you are looking for: marriage, a serious relationship or friendship.
Yes, sign-up is free, and the Free plan lets you get up to 5 matches per month and message people once you have a mutual match. Paid plans add more features; see the Premium page for details.
The whole site is available in four languages: English, French, Hebrew and Russian. You can switch at any time with the Languages menu at the top of every page.
Sign-up takes 8 steps: account (email and password), email verification with a code, basic information, photos, religious practice, situation and criteria, "About you" and a short personality test. How it works explains each step.
Your password must contain at least 8 characters. Choose one you do not use on other sites.
After you create your account, we send a code to your email address. Entering it confirms that the address really belongs to you, which also lets us send you a password reset link if you ever need one.
You indicate your observance level (secular, traditional, conservative, reform, modern orthodox, orthodox or haredi), how you keep Shabbat, your kashrut, your origin (Ashkenazi, Sephardi, Mizrahi, mixed or other) and your synagogue affiliation.
You can add up to 9 photos and choose one of them as your main photo, which is the one other members see first.
The last step is a short questionnaire based on the Big Five model, which measures openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness and emotional stability. Your results feed into your compatibility score.
The score combines personality (Big Five), religious observance, kashrut, Shabbat, lifestyle, geography, children, education and smoking. It is calculated in both directions: how well the other person fits your criteria and how well you fit theirs.
Yes. You choose the age range you are looking for, whether you are open to a partner who has children or a partner with a disability, and whether you are looking for marriage, a serious relationship or friendship.
Premium members get advanced search with filters on age, distance, country, religious observance, language, family situation and children.
When you like a profile and that person likes you back, it is a mutual like, which we call a match.
Messaging opens only after a mutual match. Nobody can write to you unless you have also shown interest in them.
Yes, with a Premium plan. The "see who liked you" feature shows the members who have already liked your profile.
Free (0 ₪): 5 matches per month, messaging after a mutual match, and a profile visible to matchmakers. Premium (89 ₪/month): unlimited matching, advanced search and filters, see who liked you, and unlimited messaging with your matches. Premium + Matchmaker (179 ₪/month): everything in Premium plus a dedicated personal matchmaker.
With Premium + Matchmaker, a dedicated matchmaker starts with a phone or WhatsApp interview, searches and selects profiles by hand, sends you up to 4 personalized introductions per month, gives advice before a meeting and follows up afterwards. You also get priority on new profiles.
Yes, you can cancel anytime.
Your main photo is shown on your profile. For each of your other photos, you choose in your profile whether it is Public, Blurred, or Hidden until there is a mutual match.
Send an email to info@shidduchmatch.org with the member's first name and a short description of the problem. The team can suspend accounts that break the rules.
No. Your data is never sold to third parties. Our privacy policy explains what we collect and why.
Use the forgotten password option on the login page. We will email you a link to set a new password.
Account deletion is done on request: email info@shidduchmatch.org from the address linked to your account and we will delete it. The same address handles requests to access or correct your data.